| OR, WHY IT STILL HURTS TO BE A WOMAN IN LABOR |
| BERNICE RESNICK SANDLER * |
| a growing body of research which describes how studentsboth male and femaletreat women faculty differently than male faculty,11 |
| materials from campus reports on the status of women, and |
| conversations with women faculty members in all types of institutions, disciplines and settings. |
| immediately challenging faculty members, starting early in the lecture and continuing throughout; |
| aggressively noting minor flaws and stating the exception to each generalization; |
| challenging the source of knowledge, as in How do you know this? or Where is the research that proves this?; |
| continually interrupting the female faculty member; |
| arguing continuously about exceptions to generalizations, flaws in the faculty members statements, quizzes and the text, and; |
| negative body language such as turning away, inattention, eye-rolling, smirking, and snide comments. |
| people often act worse when part of a groupa type of gang mentality; |
| some men use hostility to women (whether teasing or more aggressively) as a way to bond with other men. They may be demonstrating their power and their masculinity to the other members of the group by showing hostility to women. |
| desecration of posters and other materials relating to women. In the spring of 1988, the chair of the Womens Law Association at Harvard University put up a poster publicizing a weekly luncheon series in which the topic was The F Word: To Be or Not To Be a Feminist. The words a feminist were crossed out, and the new title was To Be or Not To Be Fucked. |
| anti-lesbian activity. In a yearbook in a university library, someone scrawled across the picture of a camus womens organization, the words Lesbian Formation. |
| pornographic graffiti about women faculty and students or about women in general. Often the graffiti remains in place for years, offending generations of students as well as faculty. |
| sending or leaving pornographic materials in women faculty members offices or mailboxes. |
| sexist articles or editorials in the student newspaper. For example, a student editorial in the Flat Hat on November 20, 1987 at the College of William and Mary rocommended replacing women with inflatable dolls, because ... you will never have to wear a condom... worry about unwanted pregnancies... remember her name afterwards... [be concerned with] unfaithfulness... [her spending] three hours putting on make-up... complaining incessantly. Typically there is no condemnation by university officials. |
| toleration and viewing overt hostility to women as youthful highjinks or boys will be boys by administrators and others, as when men shout obscenities at women (including women faculty) passing a fraternity house, or when men harass women and men marchers at a Take-Back-The-Night anti-rape rally. |
| Incorporate climate issues into the mission of the institution. |
| Recognize that change is the responsibility of everyone on campus, not only women, faculty, or administration. Recognize that change is an ongoing process and that dealing with the issue once (or several times) will not solve the problem. |
| Work actively to create an atmosphere where womens issues are viewed as institutional issues, and where issues of differential treatment in the classroom and elsewhere can be discussed. |
| Educate all members of the academic communityfrom the trustees to students and staff-about differential treatment, the forms it takes, and the institutions commitment to make the climate more equitable. |
| Adopt a non-sexist language policy for institutional communications. A number of institutions, such as the University of New Hampshire, have done so. |
| Ensure that efforts to improve the classroom climate recognize the experiences and concerns of women of color. |
| Ensure that efforts to improve the classroom climate cover teaching faculty, teaching assistants, and students. |
| Use existing offices and structures to evaluate the classroom climate for women faculty members, such as faculty development programs, committees or commissions on the status of women, womens studies coordinating committees, and graduate student organizations. |
| Monitor these offices to ensure that they are knowledgeable and incorporate climate issues into their ongoing activities. |
| Acknowledge and Publicize the Issue in Order to Make Classroom Behavior a Topic for Campus-wide Discussion |
| Publish materials in institutional media, such as faculty newsletters and student newspapers. |
| Give interviews in the student newspaper about the issue. |
| Circulate materials, such as this paper, to faculty members. |
| Develop materials to be disseminated to students and/or for faculty to hand out and discuss, if desired, as to what constitutes appropriate behavior toward other students and faculty members. |
| Gather data by surveying faculty and students about these issues and make the results a matter of public discussion. One way to publicize the issue is to list quotations from women faculty (without their names) describing their experiences. The cumulative effect of reading several pages describing these experiences is powerful. |
| Develop Appropriate Policies |
| Appoint a university-wide committee to explore the problem and develop recommendations. Include male and female students as well as faculty members. Include sympathetic men. Deans and department chairs can also appoint similar committees where appropriate. Publicize the report when it is finished and move to implement its recommendations. Develop a time-table for the report and for implementation of its recommendations. |
| Develop or evaluate existing policies covering student behaviors toward faculty members. Publicize the policies and periodically disseminate them. |
| Develop standards for behavior toward faculty members, male and female, in the student code of behavior. Include examples of behaviors that will not be tolerated. Publicize the code and disseminate it regularly, such as at the start of each academic year. |
| Develop or evaluate existing policies to allow faculty members and/or department chairs to bring charges against students who are disruptive in class. Ensure that ther complaint procedure can accommodate non-verbal as well as overt behavior. The policy should encourage informal resolution (such as mediation or use of an ombudsperson) but also include formal procedures including sanctions. |
| Evaluate policies and their implementation concerning complaints by students against faculty. Encourage informal resolution as in the previous recommendation. |
| When women faculty members are charged with bias against men, ensure that the procedure includes determining whether the faculty member was truly favoring men or just giving all her students, including women, an equal chance.49 |
| When male students complain against a professor, hear both sides of the incident before making any judgements. |
| Revise sexual harassment policies to include student harassment of faculty members as well as student-to-student harassment in the classroom and elsewhere. |
| Where appropriate, invoke student disciplinary procedures, and do so publicly. |
| Recognize that the absence of an official response is often viewed as tacit or official approval of the behavior. |
| If student disciplinary procedures cannot be invoked, use shame as a public means of dealing with the issue. Official condemnation, publicized in the student newspaper, can be helpful in supporting those who are concerned about the behavior and in generating campus discussion about the issues. |
| Treat the issue seriously. The faculty at Bates College in Maine canceled all classes and activities so that students could attend a series of workshops and seminars on harassment after two male students attached a computerized image of a penis to the office door of a female faculty member. |
| Provide specific training to members of fraternities and athletic teams since these groups may be more prone to harassing women teachers than others. |
| Recognize that freedom of speech does not justify verbal harassment of women faculty members. Student disagreement with faculty members is not the issue; how that disagreement is expressed is the concern. |
| When prospective faculty and administrators are being hired, examine their comittment to equity for women and students of color.50 |
| When faculty and administrators are being evaluated for promotion and tenure, include fair treatment of women and people of color as one of the criteria. |
| Conduct workshops for promotion and tenure committees to ensure that members are aware of devaluation and its impact on student evaluations. |
| If student evaluations are formally conducted by the institution, try to counteract devaluation by listing specific behaviors such as: |
| Does this teacher encourage students to speak?51 |
| Does this teacher help students think about issues or does the teacher present all the information as a given? |
| Conduct workshops focused on this issue at retreats, general faculty meetings, college-wide programs, lecture series and departmental meetings. Women especially need to know that these things are more likely to happen to them than to men st that they understand these factors when students behave badly toward them. Such workshops can also provide an opportunity for women to talk to each other about these issues and to develop classroom strategies. |
| Include information about and strategies for dealing with student behaviors in faculty development programs and in teaching programs for graduate and teaching assistants. |
| Materials for faculty training might be developed by a faculty development committee or by a committee on the status of women or by the two committees together. The womens studies coordinating committee might also be involved. |
| Dont be modest about your accomplishments. Where appropriate, let the class know of your achievements. It is often important to do this at the first session in order to combat devaluation. One science professor, in order to enhance the perception of her credibility, wore a white laboratory coat and used a long pointer at the blackboard. |
| Develop a hand-out or discuss during the first class session, what constitutes appropriate behavior toward other students and toward the faculty member. The development of such materials is best done by the institution, the school or the department, but can also be done by individual teachers. This may be particularly important in womens studies courses. |
| Decide how you want students to address you. In some schools faculty are typically called by their first name; in others it is unusual unless the professor gives a student(s) permission to do so. Be aware that allowing students to call you by your first name (especially if this is not usual in your school or if you are young) may diminish your authority and perceptions of competence. On the other hand, making an issue of it may also make you look bossy or unfriendly (another double bind). Whatever you decide, you need to be in charge so that you can tell students at the first session how you want to be addressed. |
| Be aware of your style of speaking and how it might affect others. Choose the style most useful for different parts of your teaching so that you can be appropriately assertive and/or collaborative. |
| Beware of self-effacing comments, especially at the beginning of a semester. Because women often have been socialized to be modest, to share the credit for success and to express vulnerability as a way of enhancing relationships, they may fall into the habit of making self-effacing remarks such as Im terrible at statistics, or I had a rough time in graduate school with this too. For man, such remarks are often seem as becomingly modest; for women, such remarks are often taken at face value as reflecting a lack of competence, rather than as a way of showing understanding of someone elses difficulties. |
| When problems occur, talk to other women faculty members for clarification of what is happening and exchange ideas about strategies. |
| When instances of disrespectful, disruptive or sexist behavior occur, recognize that you need to deal with them as soon as possible, if not immediately. Postponing your response may convey weakness and thus reinforce the perception of yourself as a suitable target. If you are reluctant to reprimand a student publicly, tell the student in front of the class that you would like to see him (or her) after class. This gives the class the message that you are not willing to tolerate the behavior. |
| Recognize that not responding to such behavior is often viewed as condoning the behavior and/or as being powerless to deal with it, perceptions that often increase the likelihood that such behavior will recur and escalate. Sometimes, particularly at the beginning of the semester, students will test the professors limits, in essence asking for the professor to set the limits. |
| Do not be afraid to tell students when their behavior is unacceptable. In some instances, that will end the overt hostility, although the student may still exhibit negative body language. Remember that not all students are going to like you or accept your teaching, but you have a right to expect all students to treat you with respect. |
| If one or more students frowns when you are speaking, confront it openly. You can say something like I notice you are frowning. Can you tell me why? or I notice some skepticism. Lets talk about what youre thinking. |
| When students interrupt, keep talking and continue making your point. Challenge students who interrupt each other or yourself. |
| Humor is a good way to handle some issues, partly because it indicates that you are not taking what is happening as a personal affront, i.e., humor can be a way of showing strength because it shows that you are in charge.52 For example, if students call you Ms. or Mrs. or Miss, you can jokingly say, Oops, Ive lost my professorship (or doctorate) again. Although this works well with people who are comfortable using humor, it carries the risk of backfiring by putting the faculty member into a joking match with students. |
| Responding lightly to hostility is sometimes effective, especially when good teaching techniques (such as Tell me why you believe that, or a sympathetic Its hard for many people to talk about these issues) may fail. For example, if you are unfairly attacked, as when a student accuses you of politicizing the class by discussing womens issues or whatever, you might say, with a smile, Of course, and it will probably get worse. Or you might say, Ah! You found me out at last! Yes, I am a feminist. These responses are particularly useful when you sense that the behavior is not amenable to logic and that it is emotionally based. Similarly, when a student repeats disruptive or sexist behavior, such as continually interrupting, you can say, again, lightly and with a smile, Ah! I just knew you were going to interrupt at this point! I predicted it to myself about five minutes ago. This strategy, along with humor, may work because it is unexpected and breaks the cycle of behavior anticipated by the perpetrator; i.e., the students behavior is not achieving the desired effect. However, like other strategies involving humor, it can backfire because the student may feel trivialized. |
| Remember that some men (and some women) enjoy controversy as a way of relating to others intellectually. Their behavior may not be personally related to you. |
| Keep in mind that some aggressive, intimidating behavior is emotionally based. You might respond to such behavior with: Im not here to convince you but to get you to think, or You really dont like what Im saying and thats okay. |
| One way to deflect aggressive questioning is to deflectr the question to the class, rather than trying to restate the position. If a student says something like Thats not true, or I dont believe that at all, you can say, Well, what do the rest of you think? |
| Should a student be increasingly aggressive and disruptive during a class, you might consider the following: |
| Tell the disruptive student(s) to make an appointment to see you. |
| Give the student a public warning that his or her behavior is disrupting the class and if it continues, you will ask the student to leave the room. Be sure that you know that your schools policy allows you to do this. |
| Ask the student if he or she would like to drop the course, without penalty (if your institution allows it), pointing out that the student seems unhappy with the course. This is probably best done privately. |
| Warn the student that he or she may be dropped from the course (assuming your institutions policy allows this to happen). This should usually be done in a private conversation. |
| Know your institutions procedure, if it has one, for dropping a student from a course. Use it if necessary to deal with an unruly or disruptive student after you have tried other approaches unsuccessfully. In dealing with such students you might want to write memos of your conversations with the student and descriptions of the disruptive behavior. |
| Respond when students tell sexual jokes, make sexual innuendos or sexist remarks. These behaviors are often made with the aim of intimidating female faculty as well as female students, and impressing other males. Not responding may discourage female students from speaking at all, and encourage other male students to attempt other intimidating behaviors. You can indicate your disapproval in several ways: |
| You can decide not to respond overtly and just stare and frown quietly at the person. |
| You can indicate your displeasure openly, stating that you found the comment or joke offensive, or you can say in a shocked tone, I beg your pardon! |
| You can smile and lightly say, I dont believe you said what you just did, and then go on without further comment. |
| You can pretend to take the comments literally or you can pretend not to understand and ask the person to repeat the comment once or twice. Then you can ask for an explanation. Asking for an explanation of a sexist remark sometimes embarrasses the offending person. It may also work because the person does not get the expected response from you. |
| Dont feel you have to handle every instance of offensive behavior verbally. It is all right to ignore this some of the time (although ignoring it may be misinterpreted as an inability to deal with the behavior). If you do not want to deal with a student verbally, you can indicate your disapproval by frowning, eye-rolling, or sighing. Recognize, however, that at some point you will probably have to deal with the student more directly. |
| If a student continually criticizes you inappropriately, such as Youre politicizing the class, recognize that no amount of logic in the classroom is likely to change that persons mind. It is often more effective to acknowledge the persons feelings, such as Its really hard for men when that happens. Or one might handle it in an offhanded manner, suggested earlier, as in Ah! It will probably get worse. |
| Be a role model for male students in terms of how to treat women equitably. | ||
| Make a concerted effort to be equitable in your own classes, and to do more than merely being neutral. | ||
| Talk about equity and the need for men and women to work together professionally. | ||
| Openly express disapproval of sexist innuendos, sexist jokes and humor on the part of students in the classroom and elsewhere. | ||
| Publicly condemn sexist activities occurring on campus, by communicating your disapproval to others or writing letters to the student newspaper. | ||
| Be aware of how women students are often inadvertently treated differently in classrooms. Work to treat women students fairly (such as calling on women, calling them by name, and responding to womens comments as much mens). Use women as examples in non-stereotyped roles, such as scientists or physicians. | ||
| Avoid the generic he or other words that do not connote equity. Using such words as he or she or person instead of man strongly communicates to students that you are concerned with equity issues. | ||
| Do not assume that because you treat women fairly others will do the same. | ||