| By Bernice Resnick Sandler |
| respond swiftly and publicly when sexist incidents occur. |
| invoke student disciplinary procedures, where appropriate, and do so publicly. |
| recognize that the absence of an official response is often viewed as tacit or official approval of the behavior. |
| use shame as a public means of dealing with the issue if student disciplinary procedures cannot be invoked. Official condemnation, publicized in the student newspaper, can be helpful in supporting those who are concerned about the behavior and in generating campus discussion. |
| treat the issue seriously. A few years ago, after two male students attached a computerized image of a penis to the door of a female faculty member's office, the faculty at Bates College (ME) canceled all classes and activities so students could attend a series of workshops and seminars on harassment. |
| provide specific training to members of fraternities and athletic teams because these groups may be more prone to harassing women teachers than others. |
| recognize that freedom of speech does not justify verbal harassment of women faculty members. Student disagreement with professors is not the issue; how that disagreement is expressed is the concern. |
| develop a handout or discuss during the first class session what constitutes appropriate behavior toward other students and toward the faculty member. This may be particularly important in women's studies courses. The development of such materials is best done by the institution, the school or the department, but can also be done by individual teachers. |
| recognize that when disrespectful, disruptive or sexist behavior occurs, they must deal with the behavior as soon as possible, if not immediately. Postponing a response may convey weakness and reinforce the perception that you are a suitable target. If you are reluctant to reprimand the student/s publicly, tell the student/s in front of the class that you would like to see the student/s after class. This conveys the message that you are not going to tolerate the behavior. |
| recognize that not responding to such behavior is often viewed as condoning the behavior and/or as being powerless to deal with it. Such perceptions often increase the likelihood that the behavior will recur and escalate. Sometimes, particularly at the beginning of the semester, students will test the professor's limits, in essence asking the professor to set the limits. |
| tell students when their behavior is unacceptable. In some instances that will end the overt hostility, although the students may still exhibit negative body language. Remember that not all students are going to like you or accept your teaching, but you have a right to expect all students to treat you with respect. |
| confront the students who openly frown in response to something you have said by saying something like, "I note you are frowning. Can you tell me why?" or "I notice some skepticism. Let's talk about what you are thinking. You could also say, "Tell me why you believe that," or "It's hard for many people to talk about these issues." |
| keep talking and continue making your point when students interrupt. Challenge students who interrupt each other or you. |
| Tell the disruptive student(s) to make an appointment to see you. |
| Give the student a public warning that his or her behavior is disruptive, and if it continues you will ask the student to leave the room Be sure that your school's policy allows you to do this. |
| Ask the student if he or she would like to drop the course, without penalty (if your institution allows it), pointing out that the student seems unhappy with the course. This is best done privately. |
| Warn the student that he or she may be dropped from the course (again, only if your institution's policy allows it). This also is best done in a private conversation. |
| You can decide not to respond overtly, but rather to just frown at the person. |
| You can indicate your displeasure, stating that you found the comment or joke offensive. Or you can say in a shocked tone, "I beg your pardon!" |
| You can smile and say, "I don't believe you just said what you did" then go on without further comment. |
| You can pretend to take the comments literally or you can pretend not to understand and ask the person to repeat the comment once or twice; then you can ask for an explanation. Being asked for an explanation of a sexist remark either embarrasses the offender or surprises him because he does not get the expect response. |
| Don't feel you have to handle every instance of offensive behavior verbally. It is all right to ignore some behavior some of the time (although ignoring it can be misinterpreted as an inability to deal with the behavior). If you do not want to deal with a student verbally, you can indicate your disapproval by frowning, eye-rolling, or sighing. Recognize, however, that at some point you will probably have to deal with the student more directly. |
| If a student continually criticizes you inappropriately, such as by saying, "You are politicizing the class," recognize that no amount of logic is going to change that person's mind. It is often more effective to acknowledge the person's feelings, such as, "It is really hard for men to understand when that happens." You might also handle it in the offhanded manner suggested earlier, as in, "Ah! It will probably get worse." |
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| Bernice R. Sandler, Senior Scholar in Residence at the Women's Research and Education Institute, consults extensively with institutions and others about women's equity, including sexual harassment, discrimination, and the chilly climate. She has given over 2000 presentations, written many articles, and serves as an expert witness in discrimination cases. Sandler can be contacted at: |
| Bernice R. Sandler |
| Senior Scholar, Women's Research and Education Institute |
| 1350 Connecticut Avenue, Suite 850, Washington, DC 20036 |
| Phone: 202 833 3331 Fax: 202 785 5605 |
| E-mail: sandler@bernicesandler.com |
| Website: bernicesandler.com |